1. Is Toms River a party joint? Why are elaborate party fests going on so often there? These nightly events cost 10’s of thousands each & leave the participants overindulged, & sometimes over inebriated as well. Of course it’s all for a “good cause” but what is being sacrificed for the “Cause”?
   My non Jewish employee takes night jobs as a waiter in Toms River for over the top parties. He’s amazed at the non stop partying going on with alcohol, music, various forms of “Kosher entertainment” & elaborate buffets. What is going on here? How do people learn a night seder if their sitting at a party? What other problems result from this excess of spending & display? Of course, many Yidden in Toms River have nothing to do with this, but there seems to be a sizeable number of misguided Yidden who should be explained how destructive this is to a community.

2. 100% true

3. Chaimel: I fully concur, but you and I are old bitter fogies. It’s a new דור out there and this is even respected by some in the “Torah community”.

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