TRAGEDY IN LAKEWOOD: Two Bachurim Killed in Early-Morning Accident [UPDATED]

[UPDATE 2:49pm:] The Levaya for HaBachur Chaim Zelig Berl Z”L will take place at 4:15 at Bais Mordechai, 1455 Heathwood Avenue in Lakewood.

The Levaya for HaBachur Dovid Yitzchok Handler Z”L will take place at 5:00 at the Lakewood Chapel, 613 Ramsey Avenue. Both Kevuros will be in Lakewood.

[UPDATE 12:28pm:] The Niftarim from this morning’s anccident are HaBachur Chaim Zelig Berl Z”L and HaBachur Dovid Yitzchok Handler Z”L. Levaya information will be published when available.

[UPDATE 11:24am:] Please be Mispallel for Rafael ben Sarah and Meir Moshe Ahron ben Devorah Naomi who are in critical condition following today’s tragic accident.

Original report below.

Two Bachurim were killed R”L, and several others were injured after the vehicle they were traveling in this morning hit a tree.

The accident, which occurred at the intersection of North Hope Chapel Road and New Central Avenue in Jackson, caused the vehicle to go up in flames.

Sources tell TLS the vehicle swerved to avoid a deer in the roadway.

Several other Bachurim were in the car as well, two of whom were seriously injured. Hatzolah transported them JSUMC. A third passenger was lightly injured.

North Hope Chapel Road between Clearstream and New Central is closed due to the ongoing investigation.

Levaya info will be published when confirmed.

[Note: The above was only published after TLS confirmed the families were notified]

Video: At the Levaya for HaBachur Chaim Zelig Berl Z”L.

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AK
1 year ago

Baruch Dayan Emes. What a horrible tragedy.

Aryeh not from Lakewood
1 year ago

BDE

Geronimo Bay
1 year ago

Bde

Avraham
1 year ago

I recall a number of years ago I heard a story about the
חפץ חיים
זכר צדיק וקדוש לברכה
The Mississippi River I think the water came up and caused damage to the houses near the water. Anyways the Chofetz Chaim he fasted and said a lot of Tehillim because he understood that it was a message to the entire Klal Yisroel.
There is a war going on in Ukraine and other places and people are dying left and right. Hashem is almost like crying to us and saying please get better please get along with each other please judge another person in a favorable manner please give the other person the benefit of the doubt please try to understand the other person please help the other person please give a sincere smile to another human being.
Hashem should send a quick healing to the injured.

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Reply to  Avraham
1 year ago

who du think u r?????

Anonymous
Reply to  ]
1 year ago

A caring human ..he is..thats who. Thats all you can find to say after a nice message. Its exactly to YOU who he is talking to…!

Avraham
Reply to  Anonymous
1 year ago

Thank you
Hashem should bentsch you together with the rest of Klal Yisroel

c g
Reply to  Avraham
1 year ago

It’s simply not the time, place, or forum for you to come give klal Yisroel mussar.

Sam
Reply to  Avraham
1 year ago

When bodies are waiting to be buried, and others are in critical condition, it is callous, not holy, to analyze or give any ideas of understanding, or ways to improve etc. In time of such a tzara the only thing any of us should be doing is crying, saying tehilim, or anything similar.

Avraham
Reply to  Sam
1 year ago

Yes very well said. I agree with you.
When I heard the tragedy it bothered me so much and I just lost myself and posted that comment. But you are correct.

Anonymous
Reply to  Avraham
1 year ago

You did nothing wrong…nothing

MN
Reply to  Sam
1 year ago

I disagree.
It says Avraham minimized his crying for Sarah, the ramban explained because someone who has Emunah doesn’t have the anguish of death. Rather the anguish of parting for a while from a friend.

We see from that Ramban that instead of being numb in our emotions, we should CERTAINLY try to grasp and understand what this is, for those who can. in fact, thats a step in the comfort in and of itself!

Therefore, how right is this Avraham, that instead of an animalistic drive of emotion, he reasons with what we are being told.
No, these Heiligeh Bachurim were not killed in a vacuum, their suffering and that of their families is not for naught.

It is part of a Plan, and while we cannot understand why them and why their families, and while we must certainly grieve with and send comfort to the families, and to KY as a whole, there is message from the story that we must take.

Inzy j
Reply to  Avraham
1 year ago

What!? Stop analyzing! Sam, you are spot on. BDE

Thought
Reply to  Inzy j
1 year ago

Reb Yehoshua – Well said as always!

Mcr Uk
Reply to  Avraham
1 year ago

Firstly BD”E.
I think this comment has been misunderstood.

There was no finger pointing at any community, no finger pointing at any specific Mitzvah or Avairo as being the cause, just a general statement that some self reflection is in order, and at few general positive ideas that are surely good regardless of why we do these..

If for some reason you see this differently I am sorry. No need to correct me. Let’s remain positive.

Avraham
Reply to  Mcr Uk
1 year ago

Thank you
Hashem should bentsch the entire Klal Yisroel with lots of good health and Parnassa.

Issac
Reply to  Avraham
1 year ago

Thank you for saying the truth !

S
1 year ago

What’s the tehillim names

Yochy
1 year ago

Hashem YERACHEM!!!!! What a tragedy!!!!

המקום ינחם אתכם בתוך שאר אבלי ציון בירושלים!!!!

Thanks for not posting this before the families were notified.

Yochy
1 year ago

I wish the others injured in the accident should have a רפואה שלמה בקרוב!!!!

Mom
1 year ago

Tehillim names please??

Chaya Scheinerman
1 year ago

meir moshe ahron bn devorah naomi
is in critical condition

Yideshe way
1 year ago

Boroch Dayan Emes! Please write Niftar instead of KILLED.

Meir
1 year ago

Apparently it’s callous to learn from the chofetz chaim

Emanuel
Reply to  Meir
1 year ago

He agreed on the tehilim part just not on the judge favorably part I guess

Be Smarter
Reply to  Meir
1 year ago

Not to learn from him but knowing when and where to teach the lesson.

Mo
1 year ago

Apparently it’s callous to learn from the chofetz chaim

Think
Reply to  Mo
1 year ago

Apparently, you missed the point of the commentator.

Leah
1 year ago

Thank you Avraham
It helped me
Because this has happened too much lately what is Hashem telling us? (This could not have been avoided)

Genevieve Mott
Reply to  Leah
1 year ago

This is every parent’s worst nightmare. We all need to be extra alert driving in Jackson due to the deer having nowhere to go anymore. The woodlands, their natural habitat is getting destroyed. It’s getting smaller and smaller to accommodate the overpopulation of humans unfortunately.

Frank Garnick
1 year ago

That intersection is a travesty.

LkwdDriver
1 year ago

BD”E. First of all, stop arguing in the comments section when the families are going through so much right now. Second of all, it could have been avoided if people in Lakewood start driving normally not in the wrong lane, not cutting off slow cars, not honking, and just act like a human when driving (and always). May we Mashiach come NOW. Be well.

Yossi
Reply to  LkwdDriver
1 year ago

Actually there was a deer involved it happened at 2 am

Annon
Reply to  LkwdDriver
1 year ago

They hit a deer !!! Calm down.

M
Reply to  LkwdDriver
1 year ago

It says in the article that they were swerving to avoid a deer.

A
Reply to  LkwdDriver
1 year ago

My understanding is that the car hit a deer. It can happen to anyone. Stop judging.

c g
Reply to  LkwdDriver
1 year ago

TAKE DOWN THIS POST. You should be ashamed of yourself.

MN
Reply to  LkwdDriver
1 year ago

and the insinuation that in lakewood there is bad driving is completely incorrect.
As someone who moved here from out of town, i always was incredulous to how many people cited bad DRIVING as a problem in lakewood.

Sure, there are the few here and there, but mainly the driving problems stem from a lack of infrastructure rather than a driving issue.

You find the same, and in fact WORSE issues in any other area with bad infrastructure.

Manhattan anyone?

leah
1 year ago

Just a day after 100 comments justifying the opposite of kedusha where hashem is telling u I will turn away from you!!!! wake up now before its to late Long shaitels is not a halachik question its yiddishkeit everybody knows exactly whats wrong with it

Please just be honest
Reply to  leah
1 year ago

I noticed that too
Everyone please take that letter to heart and improve (instead of attacking it)

H
Reply to  leah
1 year ago

Keep quite!!

Bd
Reply to  H
1 year ago

H, I don’t know who or what you are, but there is no reason to be quiet. This is thr time when people may be Inspireds to change. The shaitlach are out of hand. If yours isn’t, then move on. Those that are, please cut them and show hashem you care

DK
Reply to  Bd
1 year ago

And those that can should wear cloth head coverings outside (and sheitels in the house where they really belong)

Yossi
1 year ago

the rambam says when a tragedy happens do teshuva dont blame it on tevvah especially when it happened 2 am

R K
1 year ago

No need to post graphic pictures. I believe you.

Rabosai
1 year ago

Just crying for yenem’s loss IS caring about others, feeling for them…And it’s what Hashem wants more than anything else- a loving relationship with each other and with Him…So first is a time to cry, and that itself is the fulfillment of what Hashem begs of us…

Saddened
1 year ago

Please stop the מחלוקת. The families are in the midst of a tragedy. The נפטרים aren’t even buried… 2 בוכרים are in critical condition. Before posting a comment, ask yourself if your child was in this accident, would you appreciate the opinions being offered?

anonymous
1 year ago

Does anybody know which yeshiva they are from?

Trying not to let this tragedy be in vain
1 year ago

When terrible tragedies are posted maybe the comment section should be closed?

Or monitored by a human.

I’ve commented on much less heavy topics & was vetoed. Here, when people are truly suffering, nasty comment are going through!!

If a comment/tragedy hits home, take it to heart & make a minor improvement in your life. It doesn’t have to be what the commentator suggests. No need to get defensive (that’s usually the sign that you need chizzuk in the exact area being mentioned…)

We ALL are work in progress (otherwise we’d be malachachim)

And if it doesn’t pertain to you. Move on!!

Anonymous
1 year ago

Just reading the comment section I left me horrified. How insensitive can people be? Stop trying to pinpoint what’s wrong with society. Not everyone is on the same level. If you want to take something upon yourself that’s great, but stop telling your fellow Jew what THEY should take upon themselves if they’re not ready. Doesn’t the Torah say to judge our friends favorably? We are not God and we are not rabbis. We don’t have the authority to pass judgement

C NB
Reply to  Anonymous
1 year ago

It doesn’t state that at all.Only for that which they are oseh ma’aseh amcha

C NB
Reply to  Anonymous
1 year ago

Incorrect.It doesn’t state that at all.Only for those & that which they are oseh ma’aseh amcha

midnight
Reply to  Anonymous
1 year ago

whos judging unfavorably?
No one is saying any specific person did something wrong, just that certain THINGS are wrong, thus doing what they supposed to do as it states “Send rebuke to your freind”.

Anonymous
1 year ago

Is the father of Chaim Zelig R’ Lazar Berl?

Sad friend
Reply to  Anonymous
1 year ago

Yes

Jeffrey Silberstein
1 year ago

BDE.

.
1 year ago

Can we close the comment section? Its making me want to cry.

Shalom
Reply to  .
1 year ago

BDE

Such a tragedy to befall klal yisroel.

Time for serious teshuva and Achdus together as one loving nation begging Hashem forgiveness and Hashem will stop the tzaros in klal yisroel and finally accept our teshuva together and send Mashiach already bkarov.

Let’s all start working on ourselves immediately with stop living in denial and FACE REALITY and openly accept Hashems wake up call for serious teshuva together as one loving nation so Hashem can send Mashiach already bkarov.

Bd
Reply to  .
1 year ago

Please cry. The cup is almost full!

Stop blaming and just get along
Reply to  .
1 year ago

What’s going on in this comment section is why Moshiach is not here and why tragedies happen.

No where in the Torah did Anything sad ever happen because of chumras or Halacha, we lost the beis hamikdash because of something as simple as sinas chinam! We have sefirah because ppl just couldn’t get along! Is it really that hard to say “that’s so sad bde!” And move on! Or say some Tehillim?! What is wrong with all of you here!
Such a disgrace.

Midnight
Reply to  Stop blaming and just get along
1 year ago

my freind you are actually incorrect, in fact, it states that the churban happened because people only acted on the letter of the law.
“hemidu divreihem al hadin”.
Acting on the letter of the law indicates callous disregard and “get by” attitude, the opposite of a healthy approach. this is what led to all the other problems.

Additionally, it is an abhorrent mistake to say that the Talmidei Chachamim, R’ Akiva’s talimidim “didnt get along”.

That is a COMPLETE perversion of what it actually says, namely that they did not interact with HONOR to each other.

As the Shem Mishmuel explains, this means that they treated each other out of love, as equals, peers, and buddies, and did not emphasize respect, and the realization of different levels based on accomplishment.
This resulted in a lack of Kavod Hatorah, something that would not last.

Torah is Zdarchei noam, but also like fire. There must be a strong boundry to enable the beauty of life to flourish, lest unwanted elements seep in a rot away at the foundation.

RP
1 year ago

Please post an update about the levaya.

Me
1 year ago

I am so sorry for the families of these young men. I hope the surviving young men heal both physically and emotionally. I am praying for all involved.

anonnymous
1 year ago

My heart is broken for all the family members. May Hashem give you the strength to continue on during this heartbreaking tragedy.
Can the comments be dedicated to only words of nechama and memories of the niftarim? (I’m asking as someone who’s lost a young close relative suddenly and knows how it can feel)

Shira
1 year ago

BDE, this is a terrible tragedy. I really don’t understand the point of all the arguing in the comments .there is a time in place for everything and this certainly is not it.
Down the line when the families happen to read these comments Or hear about them, it’s going to hurt them more that this is what people were doing after it was publicised that their children were so sadly in this accident and niftar. It’s completely incomprehensible and quite disgusting to me as why people think it’s OK to use this as platform for this.

jc
1 year ago

levaya of habochur chaim zelig berl @ 415 in bais mordechai kvurah in lakewood

A
1 year ago

Heartbreaking. BDE.
May hashem send a refuah shleimah to the injured.
According to various news sources, it appears that the car swerved to avoid the deer.
It is important to make the public aware of the official recommended practice when encountering a deer on the road. The following is from the New York State department of Transportation website
.If a deer does run in front of your vehicle, brake firmly but do not swerve. Swerving can cause a vehicle-vehicle collision or cause the vehicle to strike a pedestrian or potentially deadly fixed object, such as a tree or utility pole.
מי שאמר לעולמו די יאמר לצרותינו די

1 year ago

BDE
Btw Chaim Zelig Berl z’l is in Rabbi Deana’s in Monsey

Stop blaming and just get along
1 year ago

What’s going on in this comment section is why Moshiach is not here and why tragedies happen.

No where in the Torah did Anything sad ever happen because of chumras or Halacha, we lost the beis hamikdash because of something as simple as sinas chinam! We have sefirah because ppl just couldn’t get along! Is it really that hard to say “that’s so sad bde!” And move on! Or say some Tehillim?! What is wrong with all of you here!
Such a disgrace.

Cohen M
Reply to  Stop blaming and just get along
1 year ago

Incorrect
The first was destroyed because of too much tolerance & acceptance “getting along with” of evildoers & poretz geder cf.Kovetz maamarim
We don’t need tragedy to ch”v bring wrong attitudes

SAD
1 year ago

BDE

1 year ago

CHAIM ZELIG BERL IS MY FREIND AND I RECENTLY SAW HIM THIS IS SO SAD I CANT GET OVER IT MAY HASHEM SEND A FAST RECOVERY TO ALL THE INJURED AND PLEASE STOP ARGUING YOU CANT IMAGINE WHAT THE FAMILIES ARE GOING THROUGH LAST NIGHT THEY HA A SON NOW THEY DONT AND WHAT ABOUT THE INJURED THEY SAW SOMEONE BE NIFTER IN FRONT OF THERE FACE !!! THIS IS JUST SOOOOOOO SAD

Puny Loves BLUE
1 year ago

How old where they?

Artie B
1 year ago

How did it happen?

oy vey
1 year ago

God Pease send a speedy recovery to all the commentaters

RAL
1 year ago

After 120 Hashem will ask you if you personally kept the Torah and if you showed love and care to his children- Bein Adam Lachaveiro.
Hashem will never ask you or hold you responsible to be policeman to have kept others in check.

STOP BLAMING THIS TRAGEDY ON WHAT OTHER PEOPLE ARE DOING OR NOT DOING TO SERVE HASHEM!

SHOW LOVE TO HASHEM’S CHILDREN AND TOGETHER WITH LOVE WE CAN BRING MOSHIACH!

Besuros Tovos!
יהי זיכרונם לברכה

Midnight
Reply to  RAL
1 year ago

dear freind, Hochei’ach tochi’ach is one of the 248 positive commandmants.

It is very different than maligning, where one seeks to shame and label another for their bad deeds, which would be the very next part of the pasuk “v’lo sisa alav cheit”.

The axiom basic to judiasm is that EVERY tragedy comes to rectify a wrong. Many times, it is not the specifically the wrong of the person suffering the tragedy per se, but a collective message. (this is very nuanced and admittedly not the forum for this discussion).

We are small, we are few, and we are week because of our Galus, we do not understand why things happen, but we can know it is a call for us to mend our ways.
To not do so is simply cruelty.

AM
1 year ago

they were around 16 17

AM
1 year ago

they hit a deer and lost control and hit into a tree and the car burst into flames instantly killing 2 and 2 were in critical condition but now 1 off them was nifter 1 is lightly injured and 1 is still in critical condition may hashem send a fast recovery to the injured and may moshiach come

1 year ago

amen

1 year ago

moshiach is coming soon all this is a hint !!!

CK
1 year ago

I never ever read or post news. I just checked in using my cleaning ladies smartphone to read about Chaim Zelig who was a pure tzadik and instead I read comments upon comments of judgement and more judgement. We are not in shamayim and do not understand reasons… when tragedy hits every yid must make a din vachashbon for himself. One thing is sure. Fighting and hurting each others on such a platform makes me cry nonstop… I am so glad that I am not a social media/news/commenting addict!!!!

facts straight
1 year ago

just fact checking. jackson EMS and Lakewood EMS transferred the boys to the hospital

1 year ago

B”DE. May all the families that lost one of their family member have Nechama. We will all continue to do our best to bring the Geulah.

1 year ago

How is the boy in the coma doing? Any updates