What matters to you? What are your thoughts on things that are important to you? What are your likes? Your dislikes? What energizes you? What do you enjoy? Where have you been and where would you like to go? Do you have short term goals? Long term goals?

“I don’t know” is simply NOT an answer.

Knowing yourself and feeling comfortable sharing your thoughts and ideas with others is a sign of confidence. If the above questions make you feel uneasy, it’s time for you to put thought into who you are and what direction you are taking: if you don’t know yourself, how can your date possibly get to know you?

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Mrs. SC Krupenia is a trusted shadchan and dating coach with over twenty years experience. She works with both girls and boys and conducts educational workshops on productive dating. She works closely with many shadchanim and Rabbonim. She is available for private consultation. She can be reached at [email protected].