Not having an opinion at all!
Expressing your perspective defines who you are and shows that you have the confidence to keep your thoughts on the table. Of course there are ways to disagree respectfully.
“Wow, I never thought of it that way,” or “That’s an interesting viewpoint.” After which you could share your own position courteously. “I believe that…” or “I’m under the impression that…
It’s okay to be passionate about your opinions, but at the same, respect other opinions as well.
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if you can’t manage disagreements on a date, how could you possibly manage them in a marriage?
I’m guessing these people are adults. Are their social skills so lacking?
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