Submitted: I Focus on Shidduchim for Ages 28-55

I “dabble” in Shidduchim. I’ve made BE”H 20 Shidduchim. Although my focus is on ages 28-55, I am open to helping anyone.

If anyone wishes to contact me, I can be reached at [email protected].

Looking forward to hearing from you.

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12 COMMENTS

    • @Shaya
      Reach out if you’re interested. If they publicize their name then you’ll have everyone up and down their block look at them like ‘that person that wrote in to TLS’ and she (he?) just wants to help. If you reach out and you find out it’s a name you don’t like, you won’t use her/him further.

      • WRONG!
        If he has a name, let him say it, what’s the secret.
        Why would I send my daughter’s resume to a nameless person?????
        Signed,
        Father of a 28 year old daughter

        • Interesting perspective. I guess because that is your line of thinking, it is not bashert for this person to help you.
          I would have thought that if you have an older single that needs a shidduch, why not spread the word and get anyone to help who makes themselves available?? If I was in that position, I would certainly reach out! I have heard of the strangest stories of how shidduchim came about and the bottom line is, “You never know”
          (and I am not talking about sending a picture of a girl with the resume but a conversation after the resume/email is sent can’t hurt)

        • I don’t see you posting your name. What’s the secret?

          There is no secret. It’s just no need to publicize it in a medium like this for no reason. Don’t blindly send a resume but start a conversation and gather information like you would do with anything else that you were making a decision on.

    • A shadchan is a just someone that suggests a match. Then after researching each other, if the two parties decide they want to pursue the suggestion, they would date each other. Either of them can call it off at any time during the dating period. Some singles do get engaged to the first person they date (since the investigation process is extensive and done very seriously) but many go on do date multiple suggestions before finding their sole mate.
      Other than cults there are no Jewish sects that have arranged marriages. The groups of people that go fewer dates before getting engaged, spend a lot more time researching the suggested match before going on a date. But it is always up to the singles to decide if they want to marry the suggestion match.

  1. Reb. Dabbler.

    I sincerly wish you all the success.

    Dealing with singles in the ages of 28-55 is one serious undertaking.

    Not for the faint of heart. GD Bless!

    Long Time Shadchan

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