(Click on letter to enlarge). (for those who can’t enlarge it, this is the exact context of the letter sent to the Readers’ Scoop writer : I am writing to you because I realize what great parents you would be. I promise you that if you accept upon yourself to wear much longer skirts and to always dress in loose (even baggy) clothing whether pregnant or not, Hashem will bless you both with children. Dear husband, it is your obligation to compliment your wife on how beautiful she looks this way. As it is truly beautiful to keep her real beauty just for you personally. You will both be blessed with children.)
I was hoping you can post the attached letter on your blog. I don’t know any other way I can express my frustration of inconsiderate and down right rude and thoughtless people. Attached is the letter and this is my comment: We’ve been married 2 years now, have no children and spend our time running to different specialist and undergoing fertility treatment. For some anonymous person to bud into my personal life and tell me he/she knows the answer to all our problems is wrong on every level. There is no rav, no person with brains that would have told this rude person to send us such a hurtful letter. We are going through enough pain every single day and to add this on top just makes it harder. To be honest, I’m so disgusted with the person, and that a town like this can produce people who write such things that I’m seriously considering leaving. Furthermore, Mr./Mrs/ Anonymous should get their facts straight. I don’t wear short skirts, and if I wear my skirts any longer I will end up flat on my face. None of my clothes are tight and if they were it’s none of your business. Every day I have to listen to peoples insensitive comments but this…this is way to far.
IY”H Mom2B