- SECOND BEST DATING TIP you’ll ever hear:
Plug in! Charge your battery before your date. No, not your phone battery – your “you” battery, to keep you energized and upbeat for the next several hours. How to do that? Firstly, eat something nutritious before you go out; even if you’re not hungry, even if you’re not in the mood.
Getting dizzy and hangry during the last stretch of your date is counterproductive.
Secondly, leave enough time to get yourself ready beforehand so that you are rested, grounded, and at full capacity during your date.
Oh, and in case you were curious; the #1 best dating advice you’ll ever get is: REMEMBER TO SMILE 😉
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Mrs. SC Krupenia is a trusted shadchan and dating coach with over twenty years experience. She works with both girls and boys and conducts educational workshops on productive dating. She works closely with many shadchanim and Rabbonim. She is available for private consultation. She can be reached at [email protected].
It is not ‘dating’ if you are dependent on your mother to review someones ‘resume’.
Any way to sign up for these tips to come straight to my email?
When the Shadchan told the bachur that the girl complained to her that he didn’t smile once during their date, the bachur smiled sheepishly to the Shadchan and said: “Yeah, my bad. I wrote down the other tips, but I forgot to write down the last one.”
After the next date, the Shadchan told the bachur: “The girl said you were smiling the entire time; she felt like you were mocking her.”
“Yeah, my bad,” the bachur replied with an amused smile, “I hadn’t eaten anything the whole day, and I was starving. That’s when I realized, much to my amusement, that this time around, I wrote down the last tip, but I forgot to write down the first tip. I couldn’t stop laughing at myself.”
The best advice I think is dont give up before you start! Like a great Baal Eitza in Lakewood once told me, when you meet someone you have to go in with the attitude that you want to make it work out, not that if it interests me I will proceed, and if not, move on. Once I committed to that attitude, I got engaged soon afterwards.