Reader-submitted: I would like to bring an important and potentially life-threatening issue to your readers’ attention.

True story: Last year at BMG’s Purim Mesiba (the first night), I was approached by a young 9th or 10th grade bachur who was part of group, and was asked if I was heading in the direction of where he was staying, (he was from out of town). I said I was and gladly gave him a ride.

On the way back, I asked him what happened to his group driver and why he wasn’t available to drive him home. He replied, that the driver had been going in to houses with them and was grabbing a few drinks, up to the point were it was evident to the boys – who luckily were still sober – that this guy was in no position to be operating a vehicle.

Thankfully they had the maturity and sanity to order him to drop them off at BMG and BH that’s were it ended.

I asked him were they picked up this driver, and he innocently told me that his Yeshiva had not arranged anything for them and left it up to the boys (who are all of 14-15 years old!). At the last minute they picked this guy up from somewhere and the rest is history.

Baruch HaShem this story ended well and everyone is safe but there could have been a very different ending.

Yeshivos- please, if you are sending your boys around it is your achrayos to be responsible and ensure they are being driven around by well reviewed, responsible drivers who will NOT touch any alcohol!

Parents- these are your precious children! Don’t assume that the Yeshiva or Mosod your kids are collecting for worked it out. Take that extra step to verify that the person you are entrusting your son’s life with is a responsible and sane adult you can rely on.

May we all have a freilichin and safe Purim!

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