EXCLUSIVE: Three Lakewood men working in Manhattan arrived home late Friday night after getting stuck in 9/11 security checkpoint traffic, TLS has learned. The three – a father, son and son-in law – left Manhattan early Friday afternoon not expecting more than the usual traffic.
But that wasn’t the case on this 9/11 weekend.
The group were held up by several 9/11 security checkpoints, delaying their trip, and quickly realized they may not make it back to Lakewood before Shabbos.
As Shabbos quickly approached, the men hurried down the Parkway, hoping to still make it home before the Zman.
However, The Zman was quickly approaching, and the men – Still only at exit 105 – phoned home, and told their wives they would have to begin Shabbos without them.
Desperately hoping to arrive as close to home as possible, the men continued down the Parkway, realizing they would have to walk the remaining distance.
Back at home, Shabbos came, and the men – who hadn’t eaten all day – didn’t arrive home.
Shortly after the Zman, a friend of the family walked to the home of Mayor Menashe Miller, to see what could be done.
The Mayor immediately sprung into action to see to it that these men be brought home.
Mayor Miller walked over to the home of the families, ensuring them he would do whatever possible to bring their husbands home.
The Mayor then met up with a Lakewood Police Officer and passed along the information, and then returned to be with the families.
The Officer, the shift supervisor, made it his responsibility to find the residents, and offered to make his way to exit 105 in attempt to locate the stranded parties.
The Shabbos LCSW unit, who also responded to the home, was sent to search up Squankum Road.
The men however, were not found at the rest stop area where they were assumed to be, and the officer began searching the area for a stranded car or walking men, as per the advice of his Superior, who also remained with the families.
After searching the area – including local Hotels – for some time, the officer and the LCSW member – made their way back to the Mayor and reported that they were unable to locate the men.
By this time, the State Police and local Police Departments were contacted, in hopes of locating the parties who may be walking the 18 miles from the exit. The Lieutenant did just that.
However, after searching for some time, the men were not found.
At about 10:00 PM, Mayor Miller, who had still not made Kiddush, said he would return shortly.
However, at about 10:25 PM, the men – hungry and exhausted – walked into their home.
They relayed to their families, that they managed to make it to exit 91 off the Parkway at Shkiah, and parked their car with their belongings, on the side of the road.
After about a three hour walk, the men spent the remainder of the peaceful Shabbos back home.

What a valuable lesson for mesiras nefesh for shabbos in our generation! A 3 hour walk in the dark is not easy.
What a valuable lesson for mesiras nefesh for shabbos- Leave work early on Friday!
We see the dedication of our mayor. He is one of a kind!
Mayor Miller (and family), your Mesiras Nefesh for others is inspiring.
If they would have called chaveirim then chaveirim would have sent someone to pick them up they did that to aa family member off mine
I agree with frank, post #2…. the lesson here is to leave work early “L’Kavod Shabbos”.
To post #1… I may be understanding your post incorrectly, but i certainly don’t think it’s called “mesiras nefesh” not to drive a car on Shabbos. I would think that would be natural for any Yid on Shabbos.
3 hours walk from exit 91 ??
and why didnt they call home with there plans ?
what about techum shabbos?
did they check if they were allowed to walk due to the isur of tchum shabbos?
what about techum?
What about the T’Chum Shobbos?
They should have left the city much earlier. They walked way too far on Shabbos. (moderated) they should have known security was going to be extra tight this weekend. Chaveirim would have gotten them home on time. They could have driven to Deal where they would’ve been welcomed with open arms. (Deal is exit 105.) But Mayor Miller was amazing and the LPD deserves a round of applause for going the extra mile.
This happened to my father and brother once. They booked into a hotel and ate pretzels for kiddush….
The Mayor is really devoted. Always giving support to all united states in time of need!! He refused to be at ground zero !! He would rather be in Lakewood helping people. Thanks Menash !!
Why are you publicizing this? The proper thing should have been to stop at deal for shabos. Or a half hour earlier in highland park. There is also the issur of techum shabbos. I’m not judging anyone. People panic when there is extreme pressure and can’t always think clearly, I understand hindsight is 20-20 however I don’t feel this story is a positive story to publicize. The real story to publicize is when someone realizes they won’t make it intime and stops and spends shabos in deal etc.
Sundown is becoming earlier each week by TEN minutes!
Some of these comments really disappoint me! Any good that someone does some people always have to find a fault in them! You think they didnt think about techem??!!?! And how are they supposed to know they’ll be lots of security this week! They left at early afternoon who would think that they wont make it back!!! To all people dont talk if you were never in their shoes!!
Hu called lcsw they have a shoboos guy or it was 91 wich is the hatzhola guy
So your telling us that a police officer, police Lt. And members of the state police all had to stop protecting the public to search for three people who were not lost but just needed a ride.
1. Leave early Erev Shabbos
2. Have a Plan B and C (such as Deal) Friday Shore Traffic is always horrendous, Friday is getaway day.
3. Leave your cell phone ON in the car so at least they could…
4. Locate the car and narrow down the search.
5. Then zone in by calculating time it takes to walk from location at Shkia.
6. Mobilize NJSP Aviation.
7. Take it from there.
8. Motzei Shabbos pay back the cost to locate you, even though they didn’t find you, they sure tried the best they could, especially with all the demands on them this weekend.
9. Major Hakaros Ha Tov is in order.
My 10 cents (rounded up)
Bet that Chicken Soup was Geshmakt!! Did the supervisor get some?
I wouldve invited them to eat by my house…I had the works except for the coleslaw!
This teaches us that everyone needs a Rav whom he is comfortable to call anytime.
Had they asked a Rav, they probably would have been advised to find a non-jew to drive them after sunset before the stars come out (Bein Hashmoshes). They should have parked in the rest area, left all their belongings in the car, and found someone to drive them in his or their car(for $100 dollars you can always find someone). This would have prevented more serious issues with Tchum and the like.
please say “I” if you agree that the negetive comments here are disheartinig. This was a beautiful act of misiras nefesh and Menashe is a gem.
Thank you lakewood police dep. For always being there for us
Menashe ur unbelievable. I’m so proud of u. TLS, thanx for posting this story. BUt it IS strange they made it 3 exits past 105. Dudi b
It was lcsw unit 95. Not steevee
Raintree is just a 20 minute walk from exit 91. Please, make ur self at home we welcome any “lost or late” travelers. We can have ur families notified via the LPD officers that reside or patrol the area.
Additionally you get A’ZA KIDDUSH.
That’s wierd. I met these 3 walking down E Kennedy and they went to stop and make kiddush by a friends house before the would walk the rest of the way… That was about 840 pm…
This happened to me once and I know what it feels like, u have one thing on your mind and that is: Shabbos is coming and I have to get home” nothing else. I don’t know anything about the techum and I don’t know why they didn’t stop in deal but I do know what they were going through and I hope no one should have to go through the same.(P.S I made it into city 3 min before sunset and knocked on the first jewish home and left muktze there- no shower or shave that week)
what a miracle. God was helping these men every step of the way. they had a mission and they accomplished the goal. job well done.
never give up and trust in God that He will show you the way. faith is our link to succeeding.
The comments here are disgusting. I am embarrased. Moshiach will never come. You will be judged as you judge others.
I … mi kiamcha yiaroel
every friday they should leave early so this does not happen again, I hope the enjoy the rest of shabbos with there family
Hey Scoop why didn’t you post my comment? Because you know I’m right?
The shift supervisors that assisted were Lt. Langenberger and Sgt. Staffordsmith. Keep up the great work! We appreciate it!!!
oh boy
TheWorthless&BiasedScoop why didn’t you post my comments???
two comments both rejected!!! censored, and blind is how you want your people i guess. shame on you!!!
could have should have……but didn’t…..!!!
You blocked my comment again scoop why?!?!?!?!? Why won’t you let the people read my opinion?